How To Ask Phone Number

How to Ask for a Phone Number: 15 Steps (with Pictures)

WebOct 28, 2023 · Making yourself laugh. Thinking of the people around you as laughable (e.g., that they're in their underwear, etc.) 2. Make your move before you psyche yourself out. …

1. Relax! If there's one single thing you can do to make it easier to ask people for their numbers, make it this! Though it's always difficult (some might say almost impossible) to force yourself to relax once you're already in a stressful situation, approaching social encounters where you think you'll probably ask for someone's number with a calm, relaxed attitude makes it much easier to pop the difficult question (and makes you look supremely confident to boot). Though everyone relaxes differently, you may want to try experimenting with some of the following relaxation methods: Meditation Yoga Physical exercise Deep breathing Making yourself laugh Thinking of the people around you as laughable (e.g., that they're in their underwear, etc.)
2. Make your move before you psyche yourself out. Often, working up the courage to talk to people you're attracted to in the first place is way harder than actually asking for their numbers. To have the best chance of getting a number, you have to be willing to immediately take the plunge and talk to people you find attractive without giving yourself a chance to over-analyze the situation and find a reason not to. Don't give yourself any opportunities to chicken out! It's much, much harder to get numbers if you don't ever approach and talk to people you find attractive. If you're having a hard time finding the nerve to approach an attractive person, force yourself to act. Try giving yourself a hard time limit (10 seconds, for instance, if you're feeling bold) for waiting and worrying before you walk over and talk to someone and stick to this time limit! If you're with friends, have them agree to "push" you into social interactions instead of giving you opportunities to wiggle out of them.
3. Use strong body language. If you look confident, most people will think you are confident — they have no way to know that you're sweating bullets on the inside unless you tell them! Take advantage of this and use proud, confident body language to give your flirting game an immediate boost. The best part of doing this is that it's part of a self-reinforcing cycle: when people react favorably to your confident behavior, you'll feel more confident, making it easier to sincerely act confident. Regardless of your sex or appearance, here are just a few universal tips for making yourself look as confident as possible: Don't be afraid to take up space. Hold your head high and stand up straight. Pull your shoulders back and puff your chest out. Take a wide, relaxed stance when you sit. Use strong, relaxed movements. Walk with long, slow strides. Use large, smooth, easy gestures. Show your attention. Position yourself to face people when you're talking to them. Use eye contact, but don't stare.
4. If you’re not confident, find an excuse to talk. Let's be realistic — not everyone is going to be immediately comfortable approaching strangers to talk to them and ask for their number. If you fall into this category, it's OK to contrive a reason to talk to someone to get the conversation flowing. So-called "conversation-starters" are some of the oldest tricks in the book when it comes to flirting and making connections with other people, but they're surprisingly effective. Don't worry — if you eventually get around to asking for this person's number, you don't have to worry about being phony! Below are just a few conversation starters to get the ball rolling: Ask for advice: "Hey, I like Dostoevsky and I noticed you reading Notes From Underground — would you recommend it?" Compliment or comment on a shared interest: "Nice Creed shirt! Did you see them when they were in town back in 2001?" Enlist their help: "Wow! Can you show me how to dance like that?" The old standby: "Do you have a

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